All right before anyone reads further I do want to point out that I will be discussing things that happen in the bedroom between married folks. That is right we are talking about sex today.

            All right to start off we will be talking about what men need and what women mean. We will be talking about how different the two genders are when it comes to sex and about how they can come together to make the relationship between the two of them the greatest experience ever. So to start off men like to have sex to feel safe and secure and women find that they want to be safe and secure before they have sex. This can lead to problems that the couple does not expect if they do not understand this. As a couple figures this out more then they can try and meet the needs that the other needs before or for the activity that they want to do. Another part of sex that is different for males and females is when they reach arousal. Males will be aroused quickly while females take longer to become in the mode for sex. This can cause problems because of the time difference when the different individuals in the couple want to have sex. The solution is knowing this problem and the two of them working together to make this matter right. Another issue that happens in couples is that men find the most interest in sex around the ages of 18 and 19 which becomes a problem because women find the most interest in sex between the ages of 30 and 35. This is a major problem that leads to a lot of problems because after this hit this point they slows are less interested in sex. This leads to a lot of women trying to find younger men during their peak interest in sex. The solution is recognizing this and responding accordingly.

            Having a good relationship when it comes to sex is very important for a relationship and can come around by adjusting to the different things that the other needs. With this knowledge the male can work towards trying to help the women get to the same point that the man is at when it comes to being turned on. This helps the sex and for the two of them to hit climax at around the same time. This means that the man needs to know the women more and more. What makes her happy and what needs she needs. Sex is not all about just having the penis enter the women. If that were the case this leads to problem of the women not having a good time during sex and she is then turned off from the experience and does no longer care about having sex.

            Now leaving just talking about sex but I am going to talk more about how a couple can become closer. Now males have a hard time talking to other about their problems when husbands where asked who they talk to about their problems the answer that most males gave was that they talk to no one about their problems or that they just talk to their wives about this. On the other hand women talk to around five people about their problems and some of the time the husband is not one of those five people that they talk about their problems to. This is something that really needs to be addressed because the only person that the couple needs to talk to about what is going on in their lives is each other. Not their parents or friends. When doing this the couple becomes closer to one another and trust is formed more making the couple a strong force to be recommended with.